Happy Birthday to Sister! :D
and April's Fools of course, haha.
Other than those wishings, I gonna make a post.
Since that's the case, YOU should stop visiting OUR BLOGS. If he wasn't understanding, he wouldn't have cared about your feelings. When we went out with him as a whole group, we weren't allowed to take photos and post it in our blogs, and for this, you should know the reason. Besides not being able to post the photos, the most ridiculous thing is we weren't able to show his name here, instead we need to use other substitutes. Why did we go to the extent of doing these? Simply because YOU are constantly stalking our blog, to find some evidence of his whereabouts. In additon, don't say that we are "K-PO" to go to your blog, because you came to our blog to stalk people!
I hereby make a disclaimer, though there are many people deploying this practice of tracking their boyfriends or whatsoever, please don't 'close' the screen and nag or interrogate your "the other half". There is no need for "you all" to be jealous because ME and MY FRIENDS HAVE NO INTEREST IN YOUR BOYFRIENDS whatsoever, being good friends and going out is just what a normal friendship is like and I don't think attachees must be exempted from enjoying friendship.
Back to the main topic, how can someone not go to any places where he/she had gone with his/her ex? If that's the case, after having ONE breakup only, the poor person have to be cooped in his house forever until you find yourself a new boyfriend? So that is what you call fair? So what if you still have feelings for him on that day when you both broke up? You ditched him twice and used sentences that hurt his pride for TWICE, he didn't even complain or say anything bad about you. Are you trying to say that when you initiated the break up twice, you're sure that he don't have any feelings for you? So you can 人身攻击?
Please don't contradict yourself, initially you was gald that both of you ended the relationship, as though you were anticipating and waiting for it to happen. Now, you get angry because he went out with the other girls after both of you broke up? The reason why he couldn't trust you, was because you hid secrets behind him, when he was already that open-minded as a boyfriend. By the way what is the problem of having a Single Party? Isn't he Single at that point of time, of course he will enjoy 'Single party', or would you rather see him go for matchmaking sessions? After all, you believe that you will get a better catch than him right? So what's there to be so possessive and haunt him at this moment? You say he treated you like shit, I say you treated him worse than shit. You know what you did, and there is no point for me to disclose the details here. And the bottomline is there is no such thing as Fairness in the world.
Ok, don't think that I am siding him becasue he is my friend, in the perspective of a girl, I understand that feeling. However, have you considered what really made up his mind and what caused the breakdown in the relationship?
You kept saying that it was all his fault, have you considered yourself?
I can't infer directly and accurately that you're materialistic, but hurtful sentences which you said to him and slapped across his face so hard, is something which has got to do with money, and him being less well-off. You not being born with a silver spoon should not be so calculative over all these things right? Aren't both of you students? Then why was it important to be in a restaurant for dinner, moreover, Singapore has few destinations for shopping, of course he brought you to those*, then what were you expecting? He will bring you to Hong Kong or Japan for one day shopping trip arh? He's been taking up so many part time jobs besides studying, what's more to find in a boyfriend like him?
Besides there is no right or wrong for Love and Love is not any comparison.
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