You See How true daily horoscopes can be

Well, I just got home from a series of torturous and strechy lessons. And now, I am here to blog, because the feeling is unbearable. I just got to see the follow:

Monday, March 3rd, 2008 -- You are challenged today because there doesn't seem to be an easy way to avoid conflict. It's not that you are looking for trouble; you're not. You prefer to settle the issue, but your actions could be more provocative than soothing. Think twice before you do something you might later regret. If you must express yourself, do it kindly and without blaming anyone else for your feelings.

100% accuracy- I reached Clementi, packed my food, while Dad and Mum came to fetch me home. It sounds wonderful right? However, wonderful things always carry a synthetic front. To me wonderful things are disguises of Misfortunes and most of the time it proved me right.

Continuing from it, Mum said that Sis got 27/30 for her Common test Chemistry paper (of course, it's a WOW!) and I just randomly remarked "叫她去撞墙!" I mean you readers know what I meant right? As in there is no threat or whatsoever in that phrase, it was just my exclamation for astonishment!

Then Dad started his displeased tone, warning me not to say this kind of thing. In another words, he was treating what I commented as a negative and extreme comment, to him it sounded harmful. After that, he started laughing. Ok, he said he was just joking.

Fine then, but I'm worn out and hungry. So I told him, I don't want to talk, or else we might end up quarreling. (Quarelling is just bad for health). In the end, he insisted that I was angry when I said I wanted to talk no more. What on Earth is this?! When I defended myself that I wasn't infuriated, he became more pissed off.

You see, this is the whole thing about being illogical, isn't it? -.-

So the problem is: I wasn't angry and he INSISTED that I was and at the end of the day, he was pissed off by his very own obstination about me being angry. And he even said that, I was disrespectful. So when I was trying to store the whole conversation cool at the beginning by saying that I do not want to pick up a quarrel is an act of being disrespectful? It means that I should have continued the argument just now to show that i have the utmost respect for him?

This was not the first time we're facing communication problems. It's just the generation gap there (when there shouldn't be any). I thought I had poured enough tears regarding this issue, I was wrong, I guess I still have a whole of my life to go through this. I got so unbearable that I could'nt finish my dinner, when I was famished. A heart shatters most when being accused by any loved ones (including bf/gf). It was just a day FULL of CALAMITY!

I need some comforting souls ):